In the summer of 2015 I was a jobless “bum” and couldn’t
decide what to do with my life. Naturally, the chance to earn a little cash was
appealing, so when I was asked to fill in for the regular pianist at Brainerd
Presbyterian Church one Sunday in July, I accepted. I had no idea just how
significant that choice would prove to be.
I was treated like a rock star as soon as I walked in the
door; I’ve never encountered a more friendly, welcoming, and appreciative group
of people. The music director, Tom Hammett, and I quickly became good friends.
I went back to the church several times that summer and was always greeted with
the same enthusiasm. Tom asked me to do a piano concert at the church and,
thanks largely to his behind-the-scenes efforts, it drew a large crowd. I had never walked away from a concert with so many donations nor had I ever sold
more CDs at a single event.
Tom became my unofficial PR agent—“unofficial” only because
I was too poor to pay him anything! He promoted my performances widely and
wrote rave reviews about them. He also went to great lengths to introduce me to
all the famous musicians he knew—which turned out to be a great many indeed! And
when I occasionally get a friend request on Facebook from a well-known musician
or impresario, I have to smile and think, Ah…
Tom has been at it again.
In the spring of 2016 I found out that I had been accepted
to a masters program at the University of Cambridge, a place I’d dreamed of
going to for years. The only problem was that I didn’t have enough money and I
hadn’t received the scholarships I’d applied for. So I decided to pick the
collective brain of Facebook, not expecting anything to come of it. In a public
post I asked if anyone might have ideas about potential sources of funding,
such as scholarships I wasn’t aware of. A few days later I received a message
from Tom: “I may have found a source for nearly HALF of your tuition funds!
This is BIG!!!!”
Sure enough, he had. Unbeknownst to me, he’d been busily
working behind the scenes and had found an incredibly generous member of his
church who had heard me play and wanted to support me. And he didn’t stop
there. He went on to assist in organizing a large-scale fundraiser concert on
my behalf, and setup a scholarship fund for me through his church, Brainerd
Presbyterian. As it turns out, he’s good at more than just music and
networking. After the concert, he put on his accounting hat and processed the
many donations that came in.
It was also due to Tom’s networking that I was able to
attend the national conference of the American Choral Directors Association
this year, which turned out to be a valuable opportunity to make new
connections and gain more exposure for my compositions. Tom found someone who
offered to cover my airfare—the same generous donor, in fact, who’d contributed
to my Cambridge fund.
Due to the often-overwhelming amount of competition, my
chosen career path is not one that is easy to get into—unless you have people
who are willing to help you in a big way. When I met Tom in 2015 I was very
discouraged at the lack of interest and rejection my work had often met
with—from publishers, conductors, competitions, etc. Tom, with his unbridled
enthusiasm about my music, came on the scene at just the right time. His
support has been a huge encouragement and has helped me reach major career
goals I could not have otherwise achieved. And, because of Tom, I’ve set
another goal: I want to learn to be as encouraging as he is and as willing to
lend a helping hand to others.
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This is the fifth in a series of articles about people who have changed my life for the better. For some background information on what inspired me to write this series, click here.
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This is the fifth in a series of articles about people who have changed my life for the better. For some background information on what inspired me to write this series, click here.
I just cried and cried reading this. I cannot express what a treasure it is to have someone outside of our family appreciate my Father's Heart of Gold. He speaks the most glowing things about you Ethan. It was a blessing to both of you to have the relationship you've had. Thank you for appreciating him as much as we do.
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